Surrender

Meditation is seeing God in yourself
Love is seeing God in the person next to you
Knowledge is seeing God everywhere
Expression of love is service
Expression of joy is a smile
Expression of peace is meditation
Expressing God is conscious action
( Guru Ji)

Krishna tells Arjuna,"You are very dear to me "and then he tells Arjuna that he must surrender.Surrender begins with an assumption .You must assume that you are the most beloved of the Divine and then surrender happens.
Surrender is not an action,it is an assumption.Non-surrender is ignorance.Non surrender is an illusion.Surrender begins as an assumption,then it reveals itself as an reality,and finally,it reveals itself as an illusion because ther is no two ,no duality.There is no independent existence for any one,so there is nothing to surrender and nothing to surrender to.You must go through surrender absolutely to realize it is an illusion.The choice is your destiny.Krishna does not tell Arjuna in the beginning that he must surrender .First he says "You are so dear to me"And then he tells him,"there is no other choice for you ,you must surrender.Either you do it now ,or you do it later." This is the path of love
(Guru Ji)